There might have been a time when an undocumented worker with an American family would have been treated leniently. But in a post-Sept. 11 world, things are tougher. Gaspar spent several weeks in jail before agreeing to a “voluntary departure.” He had to return to Mexico and petition to re-enter the United States. That was 2ВЅ years ago. Since then, Gaspar and Sheryl have pleaded their case — without success — to immigration authorities. (A spokeswoman for U.S.
Citizenship and Immigration Services said privacy rules bar her from commenting.) The family has set up a Web site (reunitefamily.org) to tell the story. More than 70 people have added testimonials, describing Gaspar as kind, hardworking and devoted. Rep. Pat Tiberi, R-Genoa Township, has also made inquiries on the family’s behalf. Family members say Gaspar has been turned down for a green card and told he can’t apply again until 2015.
The last hope might be “humanitarian parole,” which allows a noncitizen into the country for up to a year to relieve hardship. In addition to the emotional strain, Sheryl, who teaches at Zenith Academy in Columbus, has Crohn’s disease, a digestive disorder aggravated by stress. Still, it’s a long shot, said Kristie Lumakin, an attorney who is helping the family.
“Maybe less than 5 percent are granted.” Sheryl has traveled to Mexico several times to see her husband (on one such trip, Isabela was conceived) and Aidan spent Christmas vacation in his father’s village. But most of their contact is by phone. They talk every day. During a recent conversation, Gaspar’s voice was soft and strained. “I missed the country and everyone,” he said. “I miss it.